Read this article!
I was clicking through, the way I do when I'm ignoring responsibility and staring numbly at the computer screen to entertain me! so I don't have to think about anything else. I stumbled on this beautiful article. It's a blog for babylost parents. Even though I haven't lost a baby, it's about being an emotionally healthy woman.
Anyway, it's a GREAT article about depression. Eye-opening and honest.